Satnam,
Marva, that was eloquently expressed, and what a great solution. Dancing feeds the soul.
Many blessings of love and self expression,
Janet
Satnam,
I agree with Ram Gian Kaur learn to dance. It is something that I personally love to do, my husband doesn't really like to dance, and unfortunately because of this I rarely get to enjoy something that makes my soul sing. I even gave up the opportunity years ago to teach dancing because it meant I would have to compete world wide with a dancing "partner." I gave this up because I did not want my husband to be stressed about it, but thirty plus years later, I have given up so much more, just to keep the peace and appease his "fears". Please do not do this to your wife.
If you are concerned about the seductiveness dancing and your wife dancing with other men, then why would you not want to enjoy dancing with her? That way she gets to enjoy dancing and you won't feel threatened by her dancing with other men.
Shanti,
Marva
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